Spirit of Golf

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March 24, 2013

There is often a mindset of, “I’ll work hard now so that I can reap the rewards and relax and enjoy later on.”  From the standpoint of Law of Attraction, it doesn’t quite work that way.  For starters, nothing can come into our “now” experience that doesn’t require lots of hard work (and usually the accompanying toil, burnout, and grind).  Then, just about the time we get ready to reap the rewards, life continues to be challenging and hard, not because it really is, but because we never learned we could have anything we wanted the easy and effortless way.

St. Lucie West, FL – March, 2013 

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March 22, 2013

Most of us overlook the importance of the inner game because we’ve conditioned ourselves to fixate on the physical stuff.  Yet what science is telling us time and again is that the physical stuff is pretty much insignificant – and almost non-existent – when compared to the consciousness (imagination, thoughts, emotions, beliefs) which “molds the clay” of every-thing. We can stay stuck in the grinding and trying mode or we can begin to include into the action stage the effort-less power of the mind.  In either case, mind over matter (thought over action) as an energy for peak performance is a concept that is here to stay.

Dunedin, FL – March, 2013

 

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March 17, 2013

What’s important to keep in mind is that all emotions –when repeated often enough – become highly addictive to the cells of the body. Anger, anxiety, struggle, or worry all begin to feel normal and desirable, at which time the body finds any way it can to get its chemical rush. We’ll do whatever it takes – have a meltdown, toss a club, get sloppy with a shot – just to stimulate the addiction and keep the juices flowing and alive.

Phoenix, AZ – March, 2012 

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March 15, 2013

As long as we keep thinking and feeling equal to what we already know, all that we see will be more of what we already know. In other words, something’s gotta give on the inside – we’ve got to picture and imagine ourselves differently – before the physical proof can come our way. Once we do make the necessary internal shift with our thoughts and emotions, however, change happens very quickly. It’s the habitual patterns we stubbornly hold onto that drags things out and get us into trouble every time.

Orlando, FL – January, 2013

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Spirit of Golf

spirit of golf thought of the day

March 15, 2013

As long as we keep thinking and feeling equal to what we already know, all that we see will be more of what we already know. In other words, something’s gotta give on the inside – we’ve got to picture and imagine ourselves differently – before the physical proof can come our way. Once we do make the necessary internal shift with our thoughts and emotions, however, change happens very quickly. It’s the habitual patterns we stubbornly hold onto that drags things out and get us into trouble every time.

Orlando, FL – January, 2013

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March 10, 2013

Peak performance ultimately comes down to going inside and learning to feel good.  Not good because our golf games have improved or scores are lower or shots are going closer to the hole. Those are actually the byproducts of the feel good instructions we are sending to the body via the mind.  The goal instead is to retrain ourselves into feeling good for no good reason at all, since a body/mind that is tension and resistance free is going to take any subject and find a way to prosper and thrive.

Cleveland, OH – December, 2012 

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March 6, 2013

Whenever we buy into the opinions of others and whether or not we should have done this or that, we can kiss inner guidance goodbye. Standing on our heads to try and please others is never going to keep us – or them – happy for very long, since there are way too many fickle attitudes, judgments, and perspectives to keep anyone other than ourselves happy for very long.  The inner journey requires that we move toward – not away from – what makes us feel happy and whole.  We begin the all-important journey of empowering ourselves, which can never take place until we “withdraw” from the opinions of others and how they would like for us to behave.

– In response to a reader’s question on whether or not we think it is appropriate to withdraw from a golf tournament 

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March 2, 2013

It helps to understand that all emotion is neither good nor bad – after all, how we feel is how we feel – and that emotion is simply an internal barometer that lets us know when the energy of our thoughts and beliefs is aligned or misaligned with the deeper, more soulful essence of who we already are (our kindest and most loving self).

Boston, MA – August, 2011 

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March 1, 2013

While many of us have come to believe (falsely) that success is dependent upon the time-honored tradition of struggle and grind, nothing could be further from the truth. It is the stories we tell ourselves the most – and the emotional energy underlying the stories – that invents and defines our games. The success or failure that eventually manifests is not about effort but about what we believe, since the type of action we take is always preceded by imagination and belief and how easy or difficult we think the game should be.

Boston, MA – August, 2011 

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PGA Golf Etiquette

By PGA.com and Kevin Cotter, PGA

What to Expect During a Round of Golf: From Start to Finish

Arrival:

  • If caddies are available, remember that caddie programs provide young people with a chance to earn money and gain exposure to a sport that can positively shape their character.
  • A good caddie can enhance your experience by offering tips that might help lower your score. They provide information on yardage, club selection, reading greens, and understanding the course layout.

Warm-Up:

  • Arrive early enough to give yourself time to warm up properly.
  • Start with your short irons, then move to mid and long irons, and finish with your woods.
  • End your warm-up by hitting a few soft wedge shots, then practice a few putts on the green.
  • Avoid hitting too many balls and tiring yourself out before the round.

First Tee:

  • Check the scorecard for local rules specific to the course.
  • If your playing partners suggest a match, ensure everyone is comfortable with the stakes.
  • Mark your ball with an identifying mark and let the other players know what ball you’re using.

Avoiding Slow Play:

  • Keep pace with the group ahead of you by walking at a reasonable speed between shots.
  • Plan your next shot as you approach the ball by considering the wind and course layout.
  • When it’s your turn, check the lie, choose your club, visualize the shot, and play it. This process should take no more than 30-45 seconds.
  • If you’re not ready when it’s your turn, encourage another player to go ahead.

Maintaining the Course:

  • Replace your divots. If you can’t replace the divot, either use the toe of your shoe to smooth the edges or fill it with a soil/seed mix provided by the course.
  • Always bring a rake into the bunker, entering from the low side nearest the ball. After your shot, rake the area and any footprints, leaving the rake near the bunker.
  • Repair any pitch marks on the green using a tee, knife, or repair tool by gently pushing the edges toward the center and smoothing them with your foot or club.
  • Remember, while you can repair pitch marks on your putting line, spike marks must be left alone until after you putt.

On the Green:

  • Avoid stepping on another player’s putting line, the imaginary line between their ball and the hole.
  • If your ball is in someone’s line, offer to mark it with a small coin or plastic marker.
  • If you’re asked to tend the flagstick, ensure you’re not standing on anyone’s line. Hold the flagstick at arm’s length so it doesn’t flutter and cast shadows, and remove it carefully after the player putts.
  • Lay the flagstick off the green to avoid damaging it. The player closest to the hole usually tends the flagstick.
  • After everyone finishes putting, walk directly to the next tee.

Miscellaneous:

  • Play a provisional ball if your tee shot goes into the woods or might be out-of-bounds. You have five minutes to search for the original ball once you reach the area. If not found, continue with the provisional, incurring a one-stroke penalty.
  • If you find your original ball in-bounds, continue playing it and pick up your provisional.
  • Out-of-bounds balls result in a penalty of stroke and distance.
  • Never hit if there’s a chance of reaching the group ahead. If a shot might hit others, yell “fore” immediately and apologize if your ball lands near anyone.
  • Displays of frustration are fine but avoid temper tantrums like yelling or throwing clubs. It’s unsafe and unsportsmanlike.
  • Learn and understand the basic Rules of Golf, such as out-of-bounds, lost balls, unplayable lies, cart paths, and water hazards.
  • If your group stops for refreshments at the turn (after nine holes) or at the end of the round, offer to pay, especially for the caddies. Whoever buys at the turn shouldn’t be expected to pay at the end of the round.
  • Finally, shake hands with your fellow players, congratulate the winners, and thank everyone for their company. At the end of the day, the real joy of golf is the time spent with friends, old or new.

For a complete discussion of the Rules of Golf, visit the USGA’s web site.