By Kevin Cotter, PGA
Golfers spend countless hours refining their grip, stance, and swing mechanics. Yet, as every seasoned player eventually learns, the most difficult course isn’t beneath your feet—it’s in your mind.
That’s why I wrote The Modern Psychology of Golf: Mastering the Mental Game to Elevate Performance. The book explains how to sharpen focus, manage nerves, and change the way you think about the game—so your physical skills finally match your mental clarity.
But let’s not keep everything inside the book—here are three practical, usable mental game strategies you can start applying in your very next round.
1. Breathe Into Every Shot for Relaxation and Rhythm
Tension undermines rhythm. Before every swing, take a slow breath in through your nose, then breathe out completely. As you exhale, relax your shoulders and lighten your grip pressure. This easy reset helps you approach the ball relaxed, not hurried.

2. Focus on the Next Shot, Not the Last One
Every golfer has experienced a bad hole—an errant drive, a missed putt, or a double bogey. The important part is not letting it affect you afterward. After each shot, ask yourself: “What’s the best next shot I can play?” That forward-focused mindset helps eliminate frustration and prevents your score from escalating.
3. Build a Pre-Shot Routine to Boost Confidence
Consistency breeds confidence. Develop a simple routine before every shot—such as visualizing the ball flight, taking one rehearsal swing, and then stepping in. The more automatic your routine becomes, the less room there is for doubt or second-guessing when it matters most.

From Quick Wins to Long-Term Mastery
These tips are only the start. In ‘The Modern Psychology of Golf,’ I explore more proven strategies to help you:
- Control nerves under pressure
- Stay focused when it matters most
- Convert mental clarity into lower scores
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