Identifying Your Emotional Patterns on the Golf Course

How Emotional Awareness Improves Performance

From The Modern Psychology of Golf — by Kevin Cotter, PGA

Every golfer has a swing pattern — but fewer realize they also have an emotional pattern.

Your emotional pattern is your internal fingerprint —
the recurring thoughts, reactions, and habits that show up when pressure builds.

“You cannot manage what you do not first recognize.”

Once pressure hits, patterns reveal themselves.

Some golfers fall apart after a bad opening hole.
Others tighten up when they realize they’re on track for a great round.
Some go into “attack mode,” trying to force shots.
Others shift into fear-based golf, just trying not to lose.

A quiet moment of clarity — the golfer pauses, visualizes, and commits before the first tee shot.

The key is this:

You cannot manage what you do not first recognize.

Before you can control your emotions, you have to observe them.

Awareness Comes Before Change

Improving the mental game begins with noticing, not fixing.

We don’t judge.
We don’t label.
We simply observe.

Instead of thinking, “I shouldn’t feel this way,”
we move to “Interesting — this is how I respond in this situation.”

That’s emotional clarity.

How to Identify Your Emotional Patterns (4 Questions to Ask Yourself)

Next time you play, carry these with you (or jot them into a journal afterward):

  1. What situations tend to rattle me the most on the course?
    Opening tee shots… recovery shots… protecting a good score?
  2. When do I usually lose focus most often?
    After a mistake… or after something good happens?
  3. What does the voice in my head say when I’m under pressure?
    Is it supportive… or critical?
  4. How does my body respond when I feel frustrated or anxious?
    Tension? Quick tempo? Shoulders tighten? Breath shortens?

The more specific your answers, the faster your growth.

Why This Matters

Once you identify your emotional patterns, you can:

  • Interrupt negative spirals sooner
  • Build routines that stabilize your mindset
  • Stay composed during high-pressure moments
  • Play the round you’re capable of — not one hijacked by emotion

Emotional mastery doesn’t mean you stop feeling pressure.
It means the pressure no longer controls you.

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Practice Like You Compete

The Missing Link Between Range Success and On-Course Confidence

Every golfer knows the feeling—you’re hitting perfect shots on the range, but when the first tee arrives, everything feels different. The swing that once felt automatic suddenly tightens. The rhythm disappears. It’s a reminder that you have to practice like you compete if you want your confidence and performance to hold up under pressure.

Most golfers practice comfortably, not competitively. The range becomes a place to refine smooth motion rather than to recreate the focus and commitment of real play. True improvement happens when your training reflects your playing—when every shot in practice feels meaningful.

Why It Matters

Your brain doesn’t differentiate between the range and the course—it only recognizes the emotional state you train in. If your practice is relaxed, repetitive, and without consequences, your mind learns to stay calm but not to be prepared. When competition arrives, the unexpected rush of adrenaline can disturb your flow.

To close that gap, you need to bring game-day emotions into every practice. Training like you’re competing helps your body and mind perform together under the same mental conditions you’ll face when it matters most.

Focused practice builds confidence under pressure. Every shot is a rehearsal for competition.

Action Plan: Turning Practice Into Performance

1. Structure Every Session.

Warm up as usual, then switch into “performance mode.” Pick one club, one target, and hit just one ball per shot. Follow your full pre-shot routine. This helps build trust and rhythm in realistic conditions.

2. Keep Score.

Track fairways hit, greens in regulation, or distance to target. When you measure results, you build accountability—and accountability fosters consistency.

3. Simulate Pressure.

End your session with a high-stakes shot: one ball, one target, one chance. Whether it’s a wedge to a flag or a drive between two posts, learn to commit when something’s on the line.

4. Reflect Afterward.

Reflect on what you felt, not just what you did. Were you committed? Distracted? Over-focused on mechanics? Honest reflection turns repetition into mastery.

The Payoff

When you practice as if you’re competing, you start to play as if you’re actually in a competition. You’ll notice the same feelings, routines, and flow when under pressure—and your confidence will grow with each round.

Golf isn’t about perfection; it’s about preparation and trust. The next time you hit the range, don’t just swing at balls—focus on training your mind.

Train your focus, not just your swing—and your game will improve.


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Reflection & Action Plan: Trusting What You’ve Built

By Kevin Cotter, PGA

Every golfer who’s ever faced a critical shot knows the tension between knowledge and trust. You’ve practiced your swing mechanics, rehearsed your pre-shot routine, and refined your mental approach—yet when the pressure increases, doubt creeps in in.

One of the key lessons from The Modern Psychology of Golf’s “Mind Over Mechanics” chapter is that mastery doesn’t come from thinking more — it comes from trusting more.


Reflection: Quieting the Over-Thinker

Reflect on your journey as a golfer. How many hours have you dedicated to refining your grip, stance, and tempo? How many lessons, drills, and rounds have shaped the swing you have today? Most players underestimate that foundation.

When doubt takes over, you’re essentially telling yourself that all that effort didn’t matter. But performance peaks when you stop trying to control the swing and start allowing your trained motion to happen naturally.

You can’t analyze your way through the downswing—you must trust your instincts.


Action Plan: Turning Thought into Trust

1. Define your blueprint.
Write down three fundamentals that define your swing—your personal anchors, like posture, tempo, or alignment. When under pressure, return to these instead of chasing quick fixes.

2. Rehearse trust under pressure.
Simulate competition during practice. Choose a target, perform your entire routine, and swing with full commitment—avoid thinking mechanically.

3. Reflect daily. After each round, note one swing where you trusted yourself and one where you didn’t. Awareness builds confidence.

4. Build your confidence loop.
Each trusted shot strengthens your confidence in preparation. That confidence brings calmness, and calmness leads to consistent performance.


The Payoff: Freedom Through Trust

When you trust what you’ve built, golf becomes flow instead of force. You’ll feel rhythm replace rigidity, confidence replace anxiety. You’ll stop trying to swing—and just swing.

So as you head to the course this week, quiet the mechanics. You’ve already done the work. Now let your game shine.


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Golf Psychology Tips: Master the Mental Game of Golf

By Kevin Cotter, PGA

Golfers spend countless hours refining their grip, stance, and swing mechanics. Yet, as every seasoned player eventually learns, the most difficult course isn’t beneath your feet—it’s in your mind.

That’s why I wrote The Modern Psychology of Golf: Mastering the Mental Game to Elevate Performance. The book explains how to sharpen focus, manage nerves, and change the way you think about the game—so your physical skills finally match your mental clarity.

But let’s not keep everything inside the book—here are three practical, usable mental game strategies you can start applying in your very next round.


1. Breathe Into Every Shot for Relaxation and Rhythm

Tension undermines rhythm. Before every swing, take a slow breath in through your nose, then breathe out completely. As you exhale, relax your shoulders and lighten your grip pressure. This easy reset helps you approach the ball relaxed, not hurried.


2. Focus on the Next Shot, Not the Last One

Every golfer has experienced a bad hole—an errant drive, a missed putt, or a double bogey. The important part is not letting it affect you afterward. After each shot, ask yourself: “What’s the best next shot I can play?” That forward-focused mindset helps eliminate frustration and prevents your score from escalating.


3. Build a Pre-Shot Routine to Boost Confidence

Consistency breeds confidence. Develop a simple routine before every shot—such as visualizing the ball flight, taking one rehearsal swing, and then stepping in. The more automatic your routine becomes, the less room there is for doubt or second-guessing when it matters most.


From Quick Wins to Long-Term Mastery

These tips are only the start. In ‘The Modern Psychology of Golf,’ I explore more proven strategies to help you:

  • Control nerves under pressure
  • Stay focused when it matters most
  • Convert mental clarity into lower scores

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The Magic of Rory McIlroy’s Swing: 3 Keys Every Golfer Can Learn From

By Kevin Cotter, PGA

Few swings in golf are as admired as Rory McIlroy’s. Whether you’re a weekend warrior or a competitive player, you’ve likely marveled at his effortless power, smooth rhythm, and pinpoint accuracy. But what really makes Rory’s swing so effective—and is there anything the rest of us can learn from it?

Absolutely. Here are three core attributes of Rory’s swing that every golfer can study and apply to their game.

🔑 1. Lower Body Power & Hip Rotation

Rory’s swing begins from the ground up. He uses exceptional lower body movement to generate power—especially his hip rotation through impact. Rather than just relying on arms or shoulders, Rory starts the downswing by driving his lead hip toward the target, allowing energy to transfer up the chain through his torso and arms.

This dynamic move gives him exceptional clubhead speed and balance. His feet are grounded, but his hips are exploding.

Why it matters:

  • Creates effortless distance
  • Improves ball-striking consistency
  • Keeps your swing stable under pressure

Try this drill:

Practice starting your downswing by shifting pressure into your lead foot while clearing your lead hip. Imagine squashing a bug under your front foot as you rotate.

🔑 2. Wide Arc with a Full Shoulder Turn

Another signature Rory move is his wide, high takeaway and full shoulder turn. He keeps his left arm extended and away from his body while his torso rotates fully—almost as if he’s winding up like a spring, building coil and storing energy without tension.

Why it matters:

  • Maintains swing width and plane
  • Builds power through stored torque
  • Promotes a fluid, repeatable motion

Try this drill:

Hold a club across your chest and rotate your shoulders as far as you can while keeping your hips quiet. This teaches you to separate your upper and lower body—the secret to building spring-loaded torque like Rory.

🔑 3. Head Stability & Focused Eye Line

Watch Rory closely and you’ll notice something subtle but essential: his head stays stable throughout the swing, especially through impact. His eyes are quiet, fixed on the ball or just in front of it, helping him maintain balance and sequence his motion more naturally. This stability isn’t a rigid stillness—it’s dynamic control. His body rotates freely, but his head remains centered on the ball.

Why it matters:

  • Improves ball contact and low-point control
  • Enhances tempo and timing
  • Reduces the tendency to sway or lift

Visualization tip:

Imagine you’re wearing a GoPro on your cap. Try to “film” the ball all the way through the swing with minimal head movement.

🏁 Conclusion: Play Like Rory—Your Way

You don’t need Tour-level speed to benefit from Tour-level fundamentals. By working on these three keys—lower body engagement, a wide/full backswing, and head stability—you’ll set yourself up for a more powerful, consistent swing.

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5 Keys to Follow Lottie Woad’s Success at ANWA & Augusta National

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By Brendon Elliott, PGA

Published on Saturday, April 5, 2025

There’s something magical about watching a player who can work the golf ball both ways on command. As Lottie Woad demonstrated during her historic Augusta National Women’s Amateur victory last year and continues to show being in contention this year, the ability to shape shots is a game-changer on challenging courses.

The 21-year-old Florida State standout from Farnham, England, has proven her versatility by conquering both Champions Retreat and Augusta National’s demanding layouts. Her impressive closing birdies on 15, 17, and 18 to claim last year’s title showcased not just nerves of steel but a shot-making arsenal that allows her to attack pins from any angle.

“When you can work the ball both ways, you’re never out of position,” is a sentiment echoed by many elite players. This skill becomes particularly valuable on courses like Augusta National, where approach angles can mean the difference between a birdie putt and a treacherous recovery.

Let me share four key tips and a practice drill to help you develop this essential skill in your own game.

Tip 1: Understand the Fundamentals of Ball Flight

Before attempting to shape shots, you need to understand what makes the ball curve. For a right-handed golfer, a draw moves from right to left, while a fade moves from left to right. The primary factor is the relationship between your clubface and swing path at impact.

For a draw, the clubface must be open relative to the target but closed relative to the swing path (with an in-to-out swing direction). For a fade, it’s the opposite – the face should be closed relative to the target but open relative to the swing path (with an out-to-in swing direction). The ball starts primarily in the direction the clubface points at impact and curves away from the path. Only by creating this foundational understanding of what is needed to shape the golf ball can you then begin working on it.

Tip 2: Adjust Your Setup for the Desired Shape

Woad’s ability to work the ball starts with subtle setup adjustments. For a draw, position the ball slightly back in your stance but still forward of center. Close your stance by pulling your lead foot back slightly, and strengthen your grip by rotating both hands clockwise on the club.

For a fade, do the opposite: play the ball slightly forward, open your stance by dropping your trail foot back, and weaken your grip by rotating both hands counterclockwise. These adjustments naturally promote the swing path and face conditions needed for each shot shape.

Tip 3: Visualize the Shot Shape

The mental aspect of shot shaping cannot be overstated. Before each shot, Woad likely visualizes the exact curve she wants to produce. Stand behind the ball, pick a specific starting line, and imagine the ball’s entire flight path, including where it will land and how it will roll.

This visualization primes your body to make the subtle adjustments needed to create that shot. Your brain is remarkably good at figuring out how to achieve what you clearly visualize.

Tip 4: Maintain Your Tempo

One common mistake when attempting to shape shots is changing your tempo. Whether hitting a draw or fade, maintain the same rhythm and tempo as your standard shot. The shape comes from setup and minor swing adjustments, not from swinging harder or softer.

Woad’s smooth, consistent tempo throughout her swing is a key reason she can reliably work the ball in pressure situations, like she’ll experience on the second nine today at Augusta National.

Practice Shapes Using The Gate Drill

Set up two alignment sticks or clubs on the ground about 5-7 yards in front of you, creating a “gate” about 3 feet wide. Position this gate slightly right of your intended final target as you work on a draw and slightly left for working on a fade.

The challenge is to start your ball through the gate and then curve it toward the target. Begin with slight curves and gradually work toward more pronounced shapes as you gain confidence.

Practice this drill regularly, and you’ll develop the feel and confidence to shape shots on demand – a skill that might help you navigate challenging courses like Lottie Woad has at the Augusta National Women’s Amateur.

Remember, shot shaping isn’t just for elite players. With dedicated practice and these fundamentals, you can add this valuable dimension to your game and unlock new scoring opportunities on any course you play.

Five Tips Pros Use to Make More Putts

By Kevin Cotter, PGA

Nothing separates weekend warriors from elite golfers like putting. The pros sink putts with confidence, while amateurs often struggle with consistency. If you want to roll the ball like the best, you need more than just luck—you need a solid routine, proper technique, and a confident mindset. Here are five pro-level tips to help you make more putts and lower your scores.

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1. Master Your Setup and Alignment

Pros take their setup seriously. Even a perfect stroke won’t get the ball in the hole if you’re not correctly aligned. The key? Keep your feet, knees, hips, and shoulders parallel to your target line. Many pros use alignment aids in practice to reinforce proper positioning. Also, ensure your eyes are directly over the ball or slightly inside the target line for optimal accuracy.

2. Develop a Smooth, Repeatable Stroke

One of amateur golfers’ most common mistakes is getting too handsy with the putter. Pros focus on a consistent stroke powered by the shoulders, keeping the hands quiet. A smooth pendulum-like motion leads to better distance control and accuracy. To improve, try the “gate drill” by placing two tees slightly wider than your putter head. If you don’t hit the tees, your stroke will stay on path.

3. Read Greens Like a Pro

Good putting starts before you even stroke the ball. Pros read greens from multiple angles, considering grain, slope, and speed. A great technique is the “low side read,” where you examine the putt from the side that slopes downward. Use your feet to feel subtle breaks, and practice lag putts to develop a better sense of green speed. The more you understand the break, the more putts you’ll make.

4. Control Your Speed

Even the best read means nothing if your speed control is off. Pros focus on rolling the ball with perfect pace, often aiming to have it finish about 12-18 inches past the hole if they miss. A great drill to improve speed is the “ladder drill,” where you putt balls to stop at different distances within a designated zone. Mastering speed prevents those dreaded three-putts and boosts confidence on short putts.

5. Commit to Every Putt with Confidence

Doubt is the silent killer of a good putt. The best players trust their read, commit fully to their stroke, and let go of the outcome. Before you putt it, take a deep breath, visualize the ball rolling smoothly into the cup, and step up with confidence. A hesitant stroke leads to missed opportunities, but a committed one—even if you miss—sets you up for long-term success on the greens.

Now, grab your putter and have some fun out there! 🏌️‍♂️

The Perfect Takeaway

Mastering Your Golf Swing’s First Move

By Kevin Cotter, PGA

The golf swing begins with a unified movement of the clubhead, hands, arms, and shoulders. This movement, known as the “one-piece takeaway,” ensures that all upper body parts move harmoniously. Following this initial action, the hips start to rotate, responding to the movement of the shoulders. As the hips turn, the lower body—knees and feet—follow as the weight shifts back, over, and around the rear leg.

During the latter stages of this one-piece takeaway, it’s crucial to eventually allow the right elbow to fold naturally against your right side as the club continues back and up. This technique keeps the arms connected to the body, maintaining a compact and controlled swing.

The one-piece takeaway sets the initial rhythm and pace of the swing and syncs the sequence of movements: clubhead, hands, shoulders, hips, and then the lower body. This order is vital for correctly coiling the upper body against the lower body, creating a spring-like mechanism that unleashes substantial power during the downswing.

Proper takeaway execution is also fundamental in harnessing power through angular momentum, often referred to as the “lever system.” Effective use of this system is key to generating tremendous force and enabling a ball-first, then turf contact—essential for tight lies. Furthermore, striking the ball with a descending blow is critical; it imparts the necessary spin for the ball to stick in the landing/target area.

Additionally, the natural flow of the one-piece takeaway greatly influences the club’s path. Ideally, the club should move straight back, then slightly inside, before turning upward. This motion ensures that the club follows a similar, semi-circular path on the downswing, facilitating a clean and consistent strike from the ball through to the follow-through.

Contrarily, forcing the club too quickly to the outside or inside during the initial backswing can disrupt this path, leading to potential mishits like pulls or slices. Thus, mastering the one-piece takeaway is crucial as it lays the foundation for a powerful, repeatable golf swing, enabling consistent, clean, straight shots.

This detailed guide to the one-piece takeaway improves your initial swing motion and lays the foundation for a powerful, precise, and consistent swing.

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Two Swing Tips You Can Use From Scottie Scheffler’s Olympic Gold Medal Win

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By Ryan Adams, PGA

Published on Monday, August 5, 2024

It’s been quite an Olympics in Paris so far, hasn’t it?

Adding to the fervor was the Men’s Golf competition at Le Golf National, which ended with dramatics, star power and a medal decision that went right down the final hole.

In the end, as he’s seemingly done all year, it was the USA’s Scottie Scheffler finishing with the gold medal after a scintillating back-nine 29 to finish at -19. Great Britain’s Tommy Fleetwood finished one back at -18 to take silver, while Japan’s Hideki Matsuyama nabbed the bronze medal.

Scheffler’s play this year has been something to marvel at. He’s having a historic ballstriking season, and its his iron play that allowed him to stay within reach of the podium for the first three rounds . . . and then pounce in the final round with a magnificent 62.

So, you may be thinking, “What could I possibly learn from such a good golfer like Scottie?” Well, in fact, there’s a lot. But we’ll focus on two things that stood out at Le Golf National.

Solid iron play begins with solid fundamentals

One of things you have to admire about Scheffler is his commitment to always being in a fantastic position to strike the golf ball. His grip, posture, setup? They’re flawless.

But that’s also because he’s always checking to make sure things stay squeaky clean. It can be easy to shift your feet (no pun intended with Scottie) open or closed, maybe grip a little tighter, or be a little more rounded in your posture. Believe it or not, when Scottie starts his warmup each round alongside his longtime PGA Coach Randy Smith, he practices with a molded grip club to make sure his hands are sound.

Here’s the club at this year’s PGA Championship while Scottie was getting ready at Valhalla:

One of those molded-grip clubs is only $10-11 at your local sports store, so it might not be a bad purchase. Aside from your grip, if you’re heading to practice or play this week, try these tips:

  • Scottie’s shots never seemingly left his target at Le Golf National. Everything is aligned to where he wants his ball to go. Try this: At the range, or even on the course, find your target. Then find something draws a direct line between your target and you maybe 3-4 yards in front of you. It could be some grass, a divot, a dead turf spot – whatever it is, align to that so you know you’re aiming at your target hundreds of yards away.
  • Another key to good iron play is focusing on good compression. Scottie’s iron strikes sound different because he compresses the ball so well, with ball first, divot second contact. Try this: On your downswing, focus like you’re covering the ball with the center of your chest. Try half-swings with your wedges to dial in this concept first. Your hips should rotate open and then your chest center will “cover” the ball,” giving you a solid spine angle position that compresses the ball. Work your way up from wedges to irons and you’ll start feeling more confident.
Don’t forget to just have fun

To start the week, the Olympic Golf social media team had players take to mini white-boards like their first day of grade school and write a few fun facts about themselves.

The last question on each board was, “What’s your Paris goal?” Here’s what Scottie’s said:

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While this isn’t a technical swing tip, it’s something a lot of golfers forget. Sometimes we get so caught up in the nitty-gritty of swing mechanics and pressures and “Why didn’t you make this putt” that it takes the joy away from playing the game.

Now, is it easier for Scottie to “just have fun” since he’s the best player in the world? Yeah, probably. But his Paris goal is wisdom for us all, no matter how good or bad we are at golf. That mentality helped Scottie all the way to the gold medal at Le Golf National and it can probably help you with your own golf goals. Think about these two thoughts the next time you tee it up:

  • If a bad shot happens, instead of wondering what went wrong, focus on what you can do on the next shot to minimize the damage. Leave that bad shot behind where it deserves to be. It’s easy to let it ruin your round . . . but what’s the fun in that?
  • Once you’re out on the course, let the mechanics go. Golf gets to be not a lot of fun when you’re trying to keep your lead arm straight on the 11th hole or hinge your wrists on a chip to get up and down for par. Instead, remember those fundamentals we talked about, set up and let it rip.

Hopefully these small pieces of advice have you on your way to playing better – whether it’s for an Olympic medal or a few dollars from your buddies.

Five Keys to Hit Your Fairway Woods Better

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By Brendon Elliott, PGA

Published on Saturday, June 29, 2024

In Thursday’s first round of the Rocket Mortgage Classic, Cam Young hit a beautiful fairway wood from 273 yards to 3 feet. Fairway wood shots like this are shots that most amateur golfers can only dream of hitting. For most, just getting a fairway wood airborne is a significant achievement.

Struggling to hit fairway woods consistently off the deck, or the tee? You’re in good company.

Many golfers grapple with these longer clubs. But fear not, with the right techniques and practice, you can start hitting fairway woods better and add some serious distance and accuracy to your game.

Try these tips:

Get Fairway Woods That Suit Your Swing

First and foremost, it’s crucial to have the correct fairway woods in your bag. The loft and shaft flex should suit your swing speed and personal preferences. Once you have the right club, it’s time to focus on your setup and swing.

Trust The Equipment

Another key element is to trust the club’s loft. Fairway woods are designed to provide lift, so avoid trying to help the ball into the air by scooping or flipping your wrists at impact. Instead, trust the club’s loft and focus on making solid, confident conta

Understand How To Hit a Fairway Wood Properly

When hitting fairway woods off the fairway, a common mistake is to try and lift the ball into the air. Instead, focus on making solid contact with the ball at impact. Position the ball slightly forward in your stance, just inside your front heel. This setup promotes a slightly descending blow, ensuring clean contact with the ball.

Rhythm & Tempo

In terms of the swing, it’s essential to maintain a smooth tempo and rhythm. Fairway woods are designed to sweep the ball off the turf, unlike hitting irons, where you may take a divot after the ball. To achieve this, focus on a shallow angle of attack. Stay behind the ball at impact and maintain your spine angle through the swing. This will help you strike the ball cleanly and get the ball airborne.